Interesting. We’re thinking of going back to a rural life. Ironically I started there so know exactly what we’re going back to and we’re not Gen Z. Twenty years in the city has broken me mentally and the city is no use for a child unless you have money. My longing is based on remembrance, yes, chickens and goats etc are hard work but they’re more rewarding than the Gangsta Rap fan whose radio you’d like to shove where the sun don’t shine!
SH
svetlanaholmes
4 years ago
I loved the article, thank you. I would like to add that america as a whole is idealized just as cottage core. I live in Europe, and it always baffles me what Americans say. We are the richest. Our country is the most powerful. Money this, money that. Is Greece safe? Isn’t Spain poor? Oh my god Im so humbled by the thirld world. Your health system is terrible. For us europeans, scary terrible. Your cities are very dangerous. We keep watching on tv shootings every other day, 3, 10, 40, 50 dead, malls, churches, discos, schools, you name it. We keep seeing civil unrest in ferguson, in michigan, in oregon. Homeless by the thousands, everywhere. Miles of cars queing for food. Unhealthy people with obesity rates that are scary. Its all an illusion, the white country, the rich one. Americans that happen to be black have no civil rights, in the land of the free, of the brave. I wish the constant bombings,the millions of civilians killed by american troops abroad for decades, in Laos, in Guatemala, in Iraq, in Yemen, where an illusion too. They are very real. They empire is indeed powerfull. So powerful, that it damages everyone. Reality is here.
Interestingly, thanks to the pandemic. a fair few gen z have moved back with their parents in our village,Including one of our own. At first they`d wander around wearing headphones and not saying hello. We told ours -this is a village, you say hello to everyone, and if you wear headphones, you will miss out on birdsong etc. I feel other parents must have acted similarly, as now they are integrating nicely. there is a little woke/left wing reactionary/right wing friction in our house (that lamb should be a pet, no that lamb should be dinner) but we have all learned to rub along. There are opportunities to live and work rural areas, but you will earn a third of what you would in a city, but your accommodation will only cost you a quarter ( and thats in somerset). A trade well worth making I feel.
JK
jbkuhner
4 years ago
I like your writing a lot, Tanya, but this one is a bit like “proving” to the world that exercise is stupid and everyone should just sit around on their computers all day because a few instagram fitness freaks turn out to be vain and vapid. Nature isn’t the only strand of human life, but it’s an indispensable one for the whole cord. If you want to prove otherwise, try refuting the arguments of someone with heft (I’d recommend Wendell Berry).
JB
benbow01
4 years ago
I lived in a rural setting in the 1950s and 1960s, with local, organic, seasonal food… expensive, riddled with rot and bugs, decreasing quality as the season progressed, monotonous; no car, low carbon footprint, standing for a hour in the freezing cold and snow waiting for the school bus, cut off for days in Winter, 2 TV channels, wireless, no central heating, few shops with limited choice.
Couldn’t wait to get out. Boutique rural is not the real thing.
RW
roger white
4 years ago
Nice article. But of course nothing much is really happening with the climate: it’s all spin. St John’s wort will flower in June this summer just as it did in Richard Jefferies’ day in the 19th century. Bluebells will keep flowering in april. Daffodils mostly in February & March. The gentle warming since the 16th century will continue – sea levels will continue to rise at the same tiny pace they have for centuries. There is just so long the climate change cultists can keep spinning the ” apocalypse now” story. Meanwhile there is more ice in the antarctic than in the eighties. ( less ice in the arctic) – though we’ve only had satellite data since 1979. Then again the world has believed in myths for thousands of years ( God/fairies) so who knows?
JB
Juilan Bonmottier
4 years ago
Et in Arcadia Ego…
I think all Fakery is eventually experienced as distasteful in whatever form it takes -we seem to grow heartily tired of the inauthentic (thankfully) but then paradoxically we often quickly look for something else equally vacuous to fill the vacuum. That’s the fashion. (I don’t think Wilde ever said anything quite so on the money as when he commented that fashion, “is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.” )
I guess reality is very hard to bear and seen as the ugly thing to get away from. Repeatedly indulging in fickle fantasies kills time that would otherwise be spent in difficult reality. We all do it to an extent -it’s the extent to which we do it that matters.
Children especially need a certain amount of magical fantasy to contend with the vicissitudes of reality. It’s a reasonable and necessary psychological defence for a child against what otherwise would be impossible for an undeveloped mind to comprehend or bear. But children eventually learn that the more time spent tolerating reality, the more can be experienced and achieved in life.
There is not much more irritating, or more useless, than infantilised adults, and (in my view) not much that is lower than those who profit so excessively it seems from the positive promotion of such vapidity.
WP
Wulvis Perveravsson
4 years ago
Because, like most things you see on Instagram etc, Cottage Core is about portraying an image of desirable, idyllic lifestyles. It is about wanting something not because you connect with it on some deep level, or because it suits your personality, but because of who it marks you out to be. And to get a healthy following, it is best to find a niche, and hope that many others jump on the bandwagon. Take, for example, the hashtag #hikersofinstagram, which basically involves photos of girls with nice figures wearing gym pants standing around in beautiful landscapes. Nice to look at, sure, but I doubt most of them could put in a couple of miles of actual hiking. Not ‘conspicuous consumption’, but ‘conspicuous activity’.
RM
rosalindmayo
4 years ago
I am afraid I missed the point of this article- Its understanding of the meanings of Nostalgia and memory are confused to say the least. I don’t know who ‘Country cottage’ are, and I don’t feel I am missing anything Would a clearer plain speaking article have achieved better ends I wonder?
David Morley
4 years ago
I think we should have seen the warning signs when adults started taking up colouring books as a way to de stress.
I’m afraid this is just more infantilism.
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Interesting. We’re thinking of going back to a rural life. Ironically I started there so know exactly what we’re going back to and we’re not Gen Z. Twenty years in the city has broken me mentally and the city is no use for a child unless you have money. My longing is based on remembrance, yes, chickens and goats etc are hard work but they’re more rewarding than the Gangsta Rap fan whose radio you’d like to shove where the sun don’t shine!
I loved the article, thank you. I would like to add that america as a whole is idealized just as cottage core. I live in Europe, and it always baffles me what Americans say. We are the richest. Our country is the most powerful. Money this, money that. Is Greece safe? Isn’t Spain poor? Oh my god Im so humbled by the thirld world. Your health system is terrible. For us europeans, scary terrible. Your cities are very dangerous. We keep watching on tv shootings every other day, 3, 10, 40, 50 dead, malls, churches, discos, schools, you name it. We keep seeing civil unrest in ferguson, in michigan, in oregon. Homeless by the thousands, everywhere. Miles of cars queing for food. Unhealthy people with obesity rates that are scary. Its all an illusion, the white country, the rich one. Americans that happen to be black have no civil rights, in the land of the free, of the brave. I wish the constant bombings,the millions of civilians killed by american troops abroad for decades, in Laos, in Guatemala, in Iraq, in Yemen, where an illusion too. They are very real. They empire is indeed powerfull. So powerful, that it damages everyone. Reality is here.
Black people do have civil rights in the USA.
Interestingly, thanks to the pandemic. a fair few gen z have moved back with their parents in our village,Including one of our own. At first they`d wander around wearing headphones and not saying hello. We told ours -this is a village, you say hello to everyone, and if you wear headphones, you will miss out on birdsong etc. I feel other parents must have acted similarly, as now they are integrating nicely. there is a little woke/left wing reactionary/right wing friction in our house (that lamb should be a pet, no that lamb should be dinner) but we have all learned to rub along.
There are opportunities to live and work rural areas, but you will earn a third of what you would in a city, but your accommodation will only cost you a quarter ( and thats in somerset). A trade well worth making I feel.
I like your writing a lot, Tanya, but this one is a bit like “proving” to the world that exercise is stupid and everyone should just sit around on their computers all day because a few instagram fitness freaks turn out to be vain and vapid. Nature isn’t the only strand of human life, but it’s an indispensable one for the whole cord. If you want to prove otherwise, try refuting the arguments of someone with heft (I’d recommend Wendell Berry).
I lived in a rural setting in the 1950s and 1960s, with local, organic, seasonal food… expensive, riddled with rot and bugs, decreasing quality as the season progressed, monotonous; no car, low carbon footprint, standing for a hour in the freezing cold and snow waiting for the school bus, cut off for days in Winter, 2 TV channels, wireless, no central heating, few shops with limited choice.
Couldn’t wait to get out. Boutique rural is not the real thing.
Nice article. But of course nothing much is really happening with the climate: it’s all spin. St John’s wort will flower in June this summer just as it did in Richard Jefferies’ day in the 19th century. Bluebells will keep flowering in april. Daffodils mostly in February & March. The gentle warming since the 16th century will continue – sea levels will continue to rise at the same tiny pace they have for centuries. There is just so long the climate change cultists can keep spinning the ” apocalypse now” story. Meanwhile there is more ice in the antarctic than in the eighties. ( less ice in the arctic) – though we’ve only had satellite data since 1979.
Then again the world has believed in myths for thousands of years ( God/fairies) so who knows?
Et in Arcadia Ego…
I think all Fakery is eventually experienced as distasteful in whatever form it takes -we seem to grow heartily tired of the inauthentic (thankfully) but then paradoxically we often quickly look for something else equally vacuous to fill the vacuum. That’s the fashion. (I don’t think Wilde ever said anything quite so on the money as when he commented that fashion, “is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.” )
I guess reality is very hard to bear and seen as the ugly thing to get away from. Repeatedly indulging in fickle fantasies kills time that would otherwise be spent in difficult reality. We all do it to an extent -it’s the extent to which we do it that matters.
Children especially need a certain amount of magical fantasy to contend with the vicissitudes of reality. It’s a reasonable and necessary psychological defence for a child against what otherwise would be impossible for an undeveloped mind to comprehend or bear. But children eventually learn that the more time spent tolerating reality, the more can be experienced and achieved in life.
There is not much more irritating, or more useless, than infantilised adults, and (in my view) not much that is lower than those who profit so excessively it seems from the positive promotion of such vapidity.
Because, like most things you see on Instagram etc, Cottage Core is about portraying an image of desirable, idyllic lifestyles. It is about wanting something not because you connect with it on some deep level, or because it suits your personality, but because of who it marks you out to be. And to get a healthy following, it is best to find a niche, and hope that many others jump on the bandwagon. Take, for example, the hashtag #hikersofinstagram, which basically involves photos of girls with nice figures wearing gym pants standing around in beautiful landscapes. Nice to look at, sure, but I doubt most of them could put in a couple of miles of actual hiking. Not ‘conspicuous consumption’, but ‘conspicuous activity’.
I am afraid I missed the point of this article- Its understanding of the meanings of Nostalgia and memory are confused to say the least. I don’t know who ‘Country cottage’ are, and I don’t feel I am missing anything Would a clearer plain speaking article have achieved better ends I wonder?
I think we should have seen the warning signs when adults started taking up colouring books as a way to de stress.
I’m afraid this is just more infantilism.